MARRIED LIFE

                  The "I DO & The "I DON'T

              WHERE DOES                              YOURS FIT IN?

      THE BIGGEST DETERMINOR IS LOVE💓. You meet a young person that strikes you in a manner that is completely new to you. You become emotionally INVOLVED,💓 nothing else COMMANDS your mind, heart, body and soul.

      As the relationship flourishes you begin thinking about the INNEVITABLE MARRIAGE!💕💗💖 The FLESH GIVES WAY TO THE BRAIN. Or you might say that two forces unite as a purpose to ASK THE BIG QUESTION.

"WILL YOU MARRY ME?" (please) 😊

      If LOVE 💓REMAINS SUPREME, SO WILL YOUR MARRAIGE💓

     Now for the flip side, love diminishes😓

     This sets the stage for  the NEGATIVE IMPACT TO STEP IN!😏

      1. CHEATING ON YOUR PARTNER will certainly result in a rapid trip to the DREADED DIVORCE!

      2.  YOU SEPARATE. If 💓 is no longer in your lives.😞 SEPERATION gives you time to RETHINK the WHOLE SITUATION.

      3. The SEPARATION (not by choice) is caused by external factors such as an EMOTIONAL situation such as an ANXIETY SYNDROME.

      In my blog, www.henry-milette.blogspot.com, I discussed that they need to change the name, Anxiety Syndrome to the FEAR Syndrome. 

       A person who has it, FEARS the one that is their most LOVED. No matter what that person does or how much love💓 is in the picture, that person WILL ALWAYS BE FEARED!😒  

     I AM LIVING WITH THIS PATICULAR CIRCUMSTANCE.

WERE SEPARATED FOR THE FIRST TIME IN OUR 60 MARRIED YEARS💕 (plus seven months)

     I WOULD MARRY HER, RIGHT NOW, IF I HAD A CHAPEAU, IF I DIDN'T HAVE ONE, SHE WOULD GLADLY LOAN ME ONE OF HERS, FROM HER COLLECTION 😉

     THERE'S HOPE FOR THE FUTURE AFTER HER COUNSELING AND RECOVERY, IN THE NEAR FUTURE(hopefully).😀

         WE COMMUNNICATE BY TEXT AND PHONE (several times every day). 

       THERE'S HOPE THA WE SHALL RETURN TO THE WORLD THAT'S BEEN SO GOOD TO US.

WE BOTH HAVE HOPE, WE SHALL OVERCOME😂

      THE FINAL STEP IS DIVORSE. My 💓 goes out to you. IT'S NOT AN EASY PROCESS. IT'S VERY COMPLICATED AND HEART RENDERING.

     IN THE BAK CKGROUND LIES SORROW, HURT, ANGUISH, ANGER AND PAY BACK EMOTIONS 💞